How To Series
Planning for Later Life and End of Life from a Buddhist Perspective
Thursdays, 7:00pm – 9:00pm
February 23 – March 9, 2017
see detailed schedule below
— Lama Zopa Rinpoche
Venerable Drimay Gudmundsson and Judy Weitzner will lead the
first How To Series on preparing you and your loved
ones for likely care issues to arise in later life and at
the end of one’s own life.
Bring loved ones, friends and strangers — it's never too
early to make plans regarding our aging process and end of
life.
Judy Weitzner will introduce the practical aspects of being
prepared in later life and at the end of one's life. You
will have an opportunity to reflect on your personal care
plans and execute basic documents during this class — The
Durable Power of Attorney for Finances and the Advance
Medical Care Directive. By clearly outlining your wishes,
you share the gift of providing peaceful minds to loved ones
and caregivers.
Venerable Drimay will introduce specific
Dharma advice given by Lama Zopa Rinpoche in his book,
How to Enjoy Death: Preparing to Meet Life's Final Challenge
without Fear.
Methods include:
- what the dying person should focus on
- how to keep the surroundings supportive for the death meditation
- using blessed substances and holy objects
- powerful mantras at the time of death
- other prayers and practices for the friends and family to recite
- conducting a Buddhist memorial service
- what to do with the ashes.
You are encouraged to attend all 3 sessions to get the most out of the program, but if you cannot, that's okay — just drop by.
Venerable Losang Drimay has a B.A. in Asian Studies and
has traveled extensively in Asia, but actually met her
Tibetan lamas here in the United States. She has been
studying, practicing and working with centers in the FPMT
since 1984, receiving hundreds of hours of classroom
instruction from the many qualified lamas and senior
teachers that frequent our Dharma centers.
From 2001 to 2012, Ven. Drimay served as resident teacher
at our center, also living and serving at Land of Medicine
Buddha for part of that time. Since 2012, she is full-time
at Land of Medicine Buddha, continuing to lead regular
meditations and classes, as well as picking up some other
duties.
Judy Weitzner met Lama Yeshe and Lama Zopa in 1969. One
time Lama said to her, “It makes my heart break to see how
old people are treated in America. If you can, do
something about it.” The last 40 years she has been
working in the field of aging trying to realize his
vision. She has tried to integrate Buddhist teachings
into all of her work.
Lately, Judy has been leading discussion groups on
end-of-life issues, helping families and individuals with
care-planning, and recording oral histories. She has
developed curriculum for older adult classes, taught and
lectured on aging issues.
Schedule
Resources
- Toolkit for Health Care Advance Planning — American Bar Association
- End-of-life Planning — Compassion & Choices
- Durable Power of Attorney (California)
- Advance Health Care Directive — State of California
- Five Wishes — Aging with Dignity
- Physician Orders for Life-Sustaining Treatment (POLST) — California Department of Public Health
- Dharma Will — Amitabha Hospice
- The Big Book of Everything — Erik A. Dewey
- Regrets of the Dying — Bronnie Ware
- How to Help Your Loved Ones Enjoy Death and Go Happily to Their Next Rebirth — A Handbook by Lama Zopa Rinpoche
- Buddhist practices — FPMT
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